J. Parker

J. Parker is a Christian sex author, speaker, blogger, and podcaster. She earned her bachelor’s degree in history from Abilene Christian University (emphasis on church history) and a master’s degree in counseling from the University of Houston.

Her ministry, Hot, Holy & Humorous, began as a simple blog with the goal of helping others understand God’s design for sex in marriage. Since then, she’s published over 1,000 blog posts; written five books, including Hot, Holy & Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God’s Design and Pillow Talk: 40 Conversations About Sex for Married Couples; released 200+ podcast episodes with Sex Chat for Christian Wives, hosted with three other marriage bloggers; and launched an online community for higher desire wives.

But J’s goal remains the same: helping couples embrace God’s blessings for their marriage bed.

She has two grown sons, a daughter-by-marriage, and lives in Denton, Texas with her fabulous but oh-so logical husband, fondly nicknamed “Spock.”

Most Recent Project: The Higher Desire Wife: Understanding and Help for Christian Women Navigating Mismatched Sex Drives (Baker Books, 2025)

Website: https://hotholyhumorous.com/
Facebook: hotholyandhumorous
X: @HotHolyHumorous
Pinterest: @hotholyhumorous
Instagram: @hotholyhumorous

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